Cues of Infidelity
In many cases, infidelity is never discovered and a happy marriage is no guarantee that a spouse will be faithful. Happily married people sometimes cheat due to a desire for newness.
Cues of infidelity vary widely from relationship to relationship however, the warnings signs are there. Are they hiding their cell phone screens when they text? Leaving the room to take a call? Clothing smells of cigarette smoke, musky or another person’s sweat? Sudden changes in their work schedules? Not interested in having sex yet is newly obsessed with the upkeep of their looks?
Ladies, suspicion tends to help cheaters cheat more effectively. DO NOT voice your doubts. It’s a common mistake. After the confrontation, it will only make it more difficult to discover the truth. They will hide their second phones or buy hidden phone apps. They will pay more attention to their work schedule in order not to get caught. Do not confront them unless you are satisfied with the proof you already have.
Why Do Husbands Cheat?
Typically the husbands are high income earners and are more likely to cheat as they have the means and access; from prostitution to online emotional affairs. Husbands are more likely to feel cheating is justified due to the lack of sex within their marriage.
How to Catch a Cheating Husband
You must be strategic
Most men do not have the discipline to have a one-time, one-off affair. This is someone they know and have a relationship with, someone they trust. It isn’t often that husbands will have an affair with escorts unless they aren’t being watched or cared for at home.
You must pay attention to your husband’s schedule
Typically, people are creatures of habit, so if you see that he is suddenly “going to the gym” on Thursday evenings after work, pay attention. When he comes home, is it consistent with a gym work out, or does he smell of alcohol and cigarettes? Maybe his schedule suddenly has him working Saturday mornings, yet you drive by the office and don’t see his car. When you call, he doesn’t answer his phone. Pay attention to the coming-and-going of his schedule. This will tell you a lot. Learn more by reading about how to tell if your husband is cheating.
When you notice an irregularity, do not confront him
This will only make things harder! Call us and we will perform surveillance. It is the best way to get indisputable proof of the affair.
An affair is discovered, now what?
Don’t lose hope. When it comes to rebuilding a marriage or relationship after the affair, it is possible. I’ve seen couples use the affair as a wake up call. I’ve seen couples go beyond the affair and analyze what got them to this point.The road to recovery is long, but it is possible.
In the Huffington Post article titled 10 Things You Must Know About Infidelity and Cheating, marriage therapist Michele Weiner-Davis offers this advice:
“A good marriage therapist or a marriage education class can help lead the way. But be certain to seek help that is marriage-friendly.”
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The Perfect Example of a Couple Surviving an Affair
We were hired by the wife of a famous business owner. She was able to gather that he was leaving work early and not coming home until late. She hired us to see what he was doing during the 4-5 hours that were unaccounted for.
We were able to follow her husband to a Motel 6 where he met with a blonde female escort. After approximately an hour the two exited the motel room. They left within five minutes of each other to try to conceal the fact they were together in the same room.
After getting the same results on a second surveillance, the wife was able to set up an intervention with him. He confessed to the affair and began sex therapy. The couple has managed to get over his sex obsession and now their business is more successful than ever.
Cheating Husbands Surveillance: Let’s Take the Next Step Together
We understand how personal the situation is and that it’s your life. Often times you aren’t sure what to say or do; however, you know the situation is distracting you from work and/or living a healthy, happy life. Let us help you get back to your life and help you focus on you. Once we start surveillance, you will be glad that you’re doing something about it. On a good note, if you’re wrong about the affair, no one is the wiser. On a bad note, we find out if he’s gone astray. Either way, Paramount Investigative Services can help you discover the truth so that you can face facts and make an informed decision.